Here is the brutal truth that no therapist will tell you:
You cannot fix a spiritual sickness with a logical conversation. You are bringing a calculator to a knife fight.
You think you are fighting a man. You aren't. You are fighting a Construct.
In the ancient texts of behavioral science, we don't call it "Narcissism." We call it "The Parasitic Self."
This Parasite has hijacked his mind. It has one job: To feed on your reaction. Every time you cry, it eats. Every time you defend yourself, it eats. Every time you send that long paragraph text explaining your feelings, it feasts.
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Modern psychology tells you to "set boundaries."
Have you noticed that boundaries don't work on him?
He steps right over them. Why? Because boundaries are for people who respect reality. He lives in a delusion where he is God.
To save your sanity (and potentially save him), you don't need "tips." You need a Purge of the Ego.
I have recovered the "Lost Protocols." These are the laws of human nature that force the Parasitic Self to starve.
- ❌ You will not argue. (The Parasite loves noise).
- ❌ You will not explain. (The Parasite loves confusion).
- ✅ You will become a Void.
When you apply The Ego Alchemist Protocol, you do something terrifying to him. You cut off the fuel supply.
You stop worshiping the relationship, and you anchor yourself to a Higher Source of Dignity. You stop reacting to his chaos, and you become the Unshakeable Rock.
For the first time in years, the silence won't be his weapon. It will be yours.